The One Rule Home Process

Are either of these applicable to you and your family?

• You’ve been through the Leading With Love coaching program, doing the work and applying what you’ve learned, but your child isn’t one of the over 75% of participants for whom the group coaching is enough.
• Your child or family are experiencing serious problems or have participated in counseling but you’re still at your wits’ end despite your attempts to find solutions.
  

If either of these resonate, then our mentoring and healing process with a 1-to-1 coach is your answer to finding freedom!  The reason’s very simple: when relationships are strained or broken, it often requires outside help to break through the hurt, misunderstandings, and assumptions we have built up about each other. On top of that, we often need help to reestablish the sense of safety and trust that leads to healthy communication – the kind of communication which opens the door to having genuine influence in our kids’ lives. 

If you’re in a crisis situation with a child or a spouse, be assured that our mentoring and healing process approaches things very differently than counseling.  It’s a defined process that leverages both internal and external resources with the flexibility to target the often unconscious roots that drive counterproductive thoughts, beliefs, vows, communication and behavior. 

Why does it work so well? It was forged from 20 years of constant research, study, and the integration of different elements of healing that, when brought together, bring freedom and peace even to those situations psychology tells us cannot be healed.

How is this possible? The process addresses the four levels of healing that our founder, Jeff Schadt, discovered in his healing journey were required to bring about internal freedom and organic change.

 To truly heal we must address:

• Unconscious thoughts and feelings that drive 95% of decisions and behaviors.
• Cognitive thought patterns and habits that have developed based on unconscious thoughts and feelings.
• Stored trauma within the amygdala and body.
• The emotional side of healing.

Yes, it’s a holistic, integrated approach that involves mind, body, and heart. Psychology acknowledges the role spirituality plays in our ability to heal depression, anxiety, and more, yet doesn’t have the framework to integrate it into therapy. But we do! We integrate powerful spiritual components into our coaching process to help surface those 95% of thoughts and emotions that hide in the unconscious. This is how we target the actual roots of the problems to bring deep inner healing and genuine freedom.

All of this has grown out of Jeff’s personal journey. Jeff encountered a deep sense of not being good enough stemming from his childhood and dyslexia.  His dad moved up the corporate ladder quickly, so being an introvert and very shy, moving 3 times in five years, he found himself lost and out of place. It was at this time he was taken advantage of by an older boy scout and was molested when he was 11. All this set him up to be driven.  So driven, in fact, that he told his college entrance counselor college was a 4 year waste of time on his way to making lots of money.

All this left him alone and vulnerable to falling for the wrong person – which Jeff did.  So he ended up in a relationship that destroyed his confidence as it degenerated, ending up with him becoming a victim of domestic violence.  That’s something it’s hard for a man to admit unless they’re healed. 

All of these experiences forced Jeff to dig deeper and deeper to find the freedom and healing he saw promised in the Bible, but was not seeing anyone actually experience..

He just wouldn’t stop in his pursuit to be free of depression, unhealthy codependency, and the horrible side effects of being a victim of the sexual misconduct he had experienced as a kid and that haunted his life. 

He found self help books and multiple counselors pointing out pieces of the puzzle and other things that needed to be addressed, but they didn’t tie together and often they didn’t have answers. People like the psychologist who told Jeff he had negative core beliefs, but when Jeff asked how to get rid of them he was just told to be positive about himself.  Jeff tried and failed – but it only convinced him further and deep within his unconscious that there was something wrong with him.

Fortunately, he didn’t quit, and parents began asking him to help with their kids because he understood them better than the counselors they were seeing. Jeff eventually relented and began taking all the pieces and parts he had discovered and assembling them into a powerful but challenging process that started setting kids free from anxiety, depression, anger issues, rage, cutting and even suicidal thoughts,

Parents were stunned at just how fast their kids began to lighten, brighten, and change. Motivation issues vanished. Anger and fear – gone.  Frustrating behaviors were quickly eliminated. Even kids who were encountering depression and suicidal thoughts found freedom in months, not years and years. Parents started asking for help with their marriages and their entire families. (That’s how our Family Reboot Intensives got started!)

This mentoring and healing process is defined, it makes sense, and it brings healing to things psychology believes can’t be healed – including emotional shutdown, dissociation, personality splits, and even narcissism. 

It goes well beyond what faith-based healing events, conferences, and sessions offer in such obvious and profound ways. In fact, you know it’s profound when others can be trained to do it and have the same outcomes.

So whether you have much less – or even more – damage than Jeff, this process works. If you are looking to get rid of defensiveness, put your marriage back together or rescue a struggling kid, check out our mentoring and healing process at Revive Family.com our non-profit healing arm, and schedule a call to talk to Jeff or another amazing Revive Family certified coach .

(This initial call is $10, but you can get it for free if you take our free, patented One Rule Home Child Concern Index (CCI) assessment first.)

On the call, we’ll answer your questions, explain the four levels of healing in detail, and talk about your personal situation. Our goals on this call are to help you determine if we’re the right fit, and then to identify the best place for you and your family to start your journey to freedom and healing.

Take this as an encouragement: there is hope for real healing and freedom. Those recurring behavior issues that rob families of love, joy, peace, and patience really can end.