About One Rule Home

One Rule Home, founded by Jeff Schadt, was created to extend the mission of Revive Family—bringing hope and healing to families.

We help parents create emotionally safe environments where openness, honesty, and connection can flourish. Our approach is both compassionate and countercultural—offering a new way forward when traditional methods fall short. Through the Leading with Love online course, transformative books, and both group and individual coaching, we equip parents with tools to understand what’s really going on beneath their child’s behavior. We’ve seen broken relationships restored, parents move from confusion to clarity, and kids who were angry, anxious, or shutting down begin to feel safe, seen, and connected.

Each of our coaches has faced their own parenting challenges—and found life-changing insight through Jeff’s research and approach. We’re here to walk with you as you seek understanding, healing, and peace in your home.

Meet our founder Jeff Schadt

Jeff Schadt has shared the message of the One Rule - Love One Another - with thousands of families, speaking in schools and churches across the country. His passion for helping kids find purpose and joy has been his lifelong calling. With a Master's degree in Leadership, along with in-depth research with 3,000 kids, he has a unique perspective on how to lead kids in a way that they want to follow.

"A profoundly important book."

Jeff Rogers, Father, Chairman of the One Accord, Founder of Kiros., Seattle

"One of the top 10 books I have read"

Dave Ritzenthaler, Founder Victorious Christian Living & Total Life Ministries

"Jeff Schadt is an incredible coach and the content of The Secrets of Influential Parenting Read More (One Rule Home) is amazing and life altering! A Different way to look at parenting that works if you stick to it and make the teachings part of your lifestyle! I highly recommend Jeff and the program!"

Annie Colman Ludlow, Parent (Online)

"Jeff's message changed the way we parented our oldest daughter, and it turned a family in crisis into a solid family where healing can occur and relationships are restored."

Bob Hernon, Parent

"I had the privilege of hearing Jeff last night at my church. I have to say, as my kids are all now mostly out of the house, Read More I wish I had heard this message 24 years ago. Jeff is spot on! Parent, shepherd and above all LOVE your kids as Christ leads and loves us. Jeff is humble, honest and passionate for our families to raise this next generation as adults. God bless Jeff! Thank you for absolutely blessing me, and through me, my kids!"

Gwen Call, Parent

"Absolutely the best solutions for parents that are available today. Show More Jeff is uniquely qualified as a leader in the field of childhood/adolescent/adult transition. Give him a try and you will not be dissappointed. He knows this territory like a faithful mountain guide."

From a pastor / campus minister and father of three

"This organization has proven skills any parent can learn how to develop that will improve relationships with their children. It has helped us communicate and connect with ours!"

Patty DeFore Ladd, Parent

"We first heard of YTN about 3 years ago and began attending seminars at local churches. Read More We brought DVD and CDS home to continue learning how to parent our three pre-teen daughters. Our transformation as a family truly began when we enrolled in classes offered at out church. With other parents, we journeyed through videos and a workbook to better understand what is going on in the hearts and minds of teenagers and how to stand beside them as guides, instead of dictators. We highly recommend this class and video series....anything from YTN! to all parents with pre-teens and teens at home."

Christina Reger Smith, Parent

"We were first introduced to YTN 3 years ago. My husband and I were very eager to implement the things we learned through Read More "Secrets of Influential Parenting" in our family. Suddenly the upcoming teen years didn't seem like something we should fear, but instead an awesome opportunity to raise adults who will go out into the world and thrive! The changes I've seen in my kids and how we parent has changed for the better since we went through the small group study. As a testament to how well it works, every time I start to butt in and take the control back that I've given my kids it always goes sour. It's amazing that when I step back and get out of the way how much smoother life is. I learned that kids want responsibility. As parents it's our job to give it to them. Of course they aren't perfect and mistakes will be made, but isn't it better for kids to learn and mess up while Mom and Dad are around? I went out of town for 10 days in November for surgery and you know what? The kids rose to the occasion and did an excellent job taking care of life while mom was gone. Making dinner, walking home from school, getting homework done before Dad got home from work... it was a pleasure to see them thrive under responsibility. That's what it's all about! I can't say enough good things about "Secrets of Influential Parenting."

Megan Tuttle French, Parent

One Rule Home LLC

One Rule Home is a for-profit organization based in Colorado. Our sister organization, Revive Family is a non-profit organization devoted to bringing hope and healing to families with struggling kids.

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Meanwhile, things began to turn around for Jeff as he began applying his research at home. It all came to a head the night before Jeff was supposed to give his first sermon.

But something was still missing. Jeff could see the effect his research and methods had on kids, but he still suffered from codependency and domestic violence. In his recovery from domestic violence Jeff uncovered two keys to healing:

  • How the amygdala stores trauma in the body
  • The power of heart-level healing

Our Experience We are a non-profit called “Revive Family” that is here to help!

As parents it is easy to feel like we are failing. Yet…. it is often said we learn more from our failures, than our successes. Maybe it’s time to adopt a new and more positive perspective of your role in your kids’ lives as they transition from being a child to an adolescent and especially as they become a teen. What you learn will make a world of difference in your home.

We may feel like we are trapped, in a difficult situation, we become frustrated, lose hope, and may want to give up. The One Rule Home restores hope and shifts how we see ourselves as parents and the role we play in our kids’ lives. Whether things are going ok, or you have a challenging child, pre-teen or teen, sometimes all we need is to see our situation differently.

The One Rule Home, with its resources and support lead families to a better place. We have been told by society that it’s not possible to have close relationships during the adolescent years, but this is simply not true. Your family can thrive! Start with One Rule Home today!

Book

This eye-opening Book takes you inside the mind of your kid, guiding you through the process of reaching your kid’s heart and retuning the influence that is needed to see the changes you hoped to see in your kids.

Lessons through stories and research provide the background needed to understand your kid and the status of their heart.

Workbook

The One Rule Home Study & Implementation Guide dives deeper into the process helping parents focus on the changes that need to happen to reach their kids’ hearts.

The implementation process guides you through a step-by-step process to restore your ability to communicate effectively with your child and to improve the family’s culture. changes you hoped to see in your kids. Lessons through stories and research provide the background needed to understand your kid and the status of their heart.

Online

Our One Rule Home Academy’s, Blog Posts, Pod Casts, and course reinforcing what parents are learning and provides additional

Parent support zoom meetings assure that you can get your questions answered and the advice you need to make the changes needed to reach your kid’s heart.

About the organization ReviveFamily was founded to fund and further the mission of One Rule Home, our non-profit devoted to bringing hope and healing to parents and kids.

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